Proposed
Schedule
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June 9, 2003
Review Syllabus
Demonstration
Being With the Process
Ethical Guidelines
Assignment--Due June 10
Read Chapter 1
Stop and Reflect: ( p. 18-19) Answer each question in brief paragraph.
Journal Starters: (p. 21) # 1 and 2
Describe a situation in which you felt you really helped someone. Discuss what you said and did that seemed helpful. Compare this with another time in which you tried to help but were less successful. What was different about the two situations?
The Counseling Relationship
Guest Speaker: Deb Allen: Counseling Relationship
Video and Discussion
Assignment: Due
June 11
Read Chapter 2
Homework: ( p. 41) Homework 1 and 2
Journal Starters: (p. 42), #3
Written Exercises: (Go to the Web and cut and paste these exercises on a clean sheet and type your responses. Enlarge the type to “12”)
Thought-Changing
As you
begin to practice counseling, you may find that your own self-judgements
undermine your confidence. Listed below
are typical negative ideas you might find yourself thinking. Select
three of the six negative thoughts below and substitute a more reasonable
thought.
Negative Thought:
I really dread it when I have to practice counseling with a
partner. I am sure I will humiliate
myself.
Substituted Thought:
Negative Thought:
I am so concerned with what I am going to say next that I can’t really feel
much of what the client is feeling.
Substituted Thought:
Negative Thought: My clients didn’t give me any real material to work with. I just could not relate to his/her stupid problem.
Substituted Thought:
Negative Thought:
I sound so stupid and fake when I am learning how to respond. Other classmates seem to know what to say
better than me. I may have chosen the
wrong major.
Substituted Thought:
Negative Thought: I don’t like this stupid basic skill approach to counseling. I could really be good if I could just be myself or if I could do some grandstanding exercises.
Substituted Thought
Negative Thought:
I don’t like being in a position to rate and give feedback to my
fellow-classmates. I may hurt their
feelings and they will stay upset at me forever.
Substituted Thought:
Self-Assessment
The
therapeutic factors of counseling involve having really good interpersonal
functioning. Some counselors learned
these skills at home, from friends, or from school/community. Many counselors are in the process of
developing these skills. Rate yourself
on the following skills and then comment on where you learned them or what you might do to learn them in
the future.
A. Start and carry on small talk and keep a
conversation going:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not
very confidant very
confident
Comment:
B. Make people feel comfortable.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not
very confidant very
confident
Comment:
C. Talk to others about difficult and painful
issues without being overwhelmed (or changing the subject)
1
2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not
very confidant very
confident
Comment:
D. Be comfortable when people to cry or
express emotion.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not
very confident very
confident
Comment:
E.
Express my emotions and talk about my difficult times and myself
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not
very confidant very confident
Comment:
F: Allow others to express their opinions and
support them when I really want to disagree and tell them my advice.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not
very confidant very
confident
Comment:
G. Challenge others when they are not being
honest with themselves.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not very confidant very confident
Comment:
H. Deal with someone else’s anger without getting defensive.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not
very confidant very
confident
Comment:
I. .Provide any kind of negative feedback to a
class member that might hurt their feelings.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
not
very confidant very
confident
Comment:
June 11, 2003
Discuss Chapter 2
Video & Discussion
Assignment: Due
June 12
Read Chapter 3 & 4—be prepared to practice skills in chapter.3 & 4 in class
Written Exercises: :Self-Disclosure/Roadblocks/Open-Closed
Questions
Some
examples of inappropriate counselor self-disclosure are listed below. Please read the client’s statement, the
counselor’s inappropriate response, and then add a self-disclosure response
that is appropriate.
Client: I feel very upset because my boss gave a
raise to everyone in the office but me.
Counselor
Inappropriate Self-Disclosure: One time
I was so mad at my boss that I wrote obscenities on his car window.
Counselor
Appropriate Self-Disclosure:________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Client: I really feel like I am going back into the
same deep depression that I used to have.
Counselor
Inappropriate Self-Disclosure: I don’t
think you look depressed. I bet I am
more depressed than you because my boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on me.
Counselor
Appropriate Self-Disclosure:________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Client: I think I just failed my final exam.
Counselor
Inappropriate Self-Disclosure: I’m
shocked. I’ve always done great on
exams.
Counselor Appropriate Self-Disclosure:________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Roadblocks
A roadblock
is a counselor’s response that cuts off communication. List below a roadblock response and the appropriate response in the
categories listed. Review the chart on
page 61.
Example:
Client: I
think I want to break up with my boyfriend.
Counselor Roadblock Response: You cannot even think about doing that.
Counselor Appropriate Response: Tell me more about what it would be like for
you to break up with your boyfriend.
Client: I am confused about whether or not to smoke marijuana. It really decreases my anxiety.
Counselor Roadblock Response:
Counselor
Appropriate Response:
Client: I feel way too fat for anyone to ask me out.
Counselor
Roadblock Response:
Counselor
Appropriate Response:
Client: Last week, my Father grounded me. Later I stole $10 from him.
Counselor
Roadblock Response:
Counselor
Appropriate Response:
Closed
questions ask for specific information and should be used for gaining specific
information. Open questions should be
used to facilitate a client telling his story, going more in-depth about his
emotions, and exploring his/her story.
Please respond using an open question to the client’s
statements.
Client: I decided not to go to class today.
Counselor:
Client: I don’t think I will ever be able to be in
an intimate relationship?
Counselor:
Client: I’m so angry with my friend that I could
spit.
Counselor:
In Class Practice—Turn in Critique Sheets to instructor. These will be graded and then given to class member who was the “counselor”. Blank Critique Sheets will be available in class
Critique Sheet--Invitational Skills and Opening Skills
Reviewer:
Counselor:
Date:
Skill Circle/add what fits Comments/Suggestions
Invitational skills
Eye
contact Consistent with breaks
Avoids
Stares Culturally
sensitive
Other:________________
___________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Body Position Relaxed
Alertness Some tension
Defensive Sensitive to
client
Leaned toward
client Guarded
Right physical
distance Aloof
Other:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Silence Too chatty/avoid silence
Some silence for
reflection
Too much
silence—uncomfortable
Other
Voice Tone Comfortable Rigid
Good mirroring of client
emotion
Did not mirror
client emotion
Warm Cold Moralistic
Other:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Facial
Expression/ Smiling Welcoming Interested
Gestures/Touch Guarded Matched Client Emotion
Touch
comfortable to client/counselor
Touch not comfortable or suggestive
Door
Openers Pertinent & Comfortable Observation
(Comfortable Lacked opening chitchat
invitation
to Chitchat seemed
out-of-place/uncaring
talk) Moved
too fast into problem
Minimal
Client felt heard Too much
Encouragers Not enough Inappropriate
(Brief
response/ Other:
head nod)
Open
Questions Used primarily
Excellent to get
story & thoughts
Not used enough
Used to sneak
advice
Overuse of open
questions
Other:
Closed
Questions Used appropriately for
needed information
Too many
Sometimes seemed
judgmental
Overuse of
closed questions
Assignment: Due
June 16
Case Study (p. 69): answer a, b., c., and d.
Homework 2: (p. 70), #2. No need to research ethical guidelines.
Stop and Reflect (p. 88) . Do the self-assessment on opening skills. List the number and then put your rating. Discuss your reactions to what you learned and areas of growth.
Discussion Exercises:
1. What did you learn from your counseling practice? Based on the feedback you received, identify one or two things you hope to work on in the upcoming practice sessions.
2. Some students describe themselves as “having one of those faces or demeanor” that perfect strangers come up and talk to and disclose intimate details of their life. Discuss if this happens to you or not and what you think it means in relation to your regularly putting out “invitational skills”. Do you need to improve your “invitational skills” so more people will talk to you, regulate them so less will talk to you, or keep them about the same?
Colin Smith—Transference/Countertransference in Counseling
Relationship
Assignment: Due
June 17
Read Chapter 5
Exercise 2: (p. 115) a-h. List letter and then your response.
Journal Starters: (p. 116) # 1, 2, 3
Video
Follow-up Discussion on Reflection and Paraphrasing
Assignment: Due
June 18
Practice reflections and paraphrasing with a friend. Be ready to practice in class.
Written Exercise: Paraphrasing and Connecting Feelings & Paraphrasing
Paraphrasing
Listed
below are three client stories. Attempt
to paraphrase the stories. Include both the content and emotion in your
paraphrasing.
Client: My daughter is really testing my
limits. Every time she spends the weekend
with her Father she comes back very rebellious and smart-mouthed. She is really getting hard to deal with and
I’m afraid for what might happen.
Counselor
Paraphrase:
Client: I really was hoping to start a new business
next year. I have been investing in the
market for five years to have the money to do this. My investments in the market are almost worthless now. I
don’t know what to do and I don’t seem to have much motivation anymore.
Counselor
Paraphrase:
Client: I just got released from the mental
hospital. They told me I was required
to see you for therapy in order to continue their prescriptions for my
medication. It really makes me mad and
I think I’m just going to quit taking the medication they prescribed. I don’t think it is helping anyway.
Counselor
Paraphrase.
Connecting Feeling and a Paraphrase
Using
the stem, “You feel___________because___________” create statements that
reflect both the feeling and a summary of the reason.
Example:
Client: I’m
really afraid for my sister because her boyfriend seems to be really angry; she
has said he has hit her before. She had
a black eye last week but would not tell me what happened.
Counselor:
You feel really frightened because your sister is in a relationship that
might be getting even more violent
Client
(age 25): My Mother will not stop
telling me what to do. She calls me
daily to see if I’m awake and to discuss my plans for the day. She expects me to call her every night and
report in.
Counselor: You feel because .
Client: I
can’t seem to make myself go to class.
I guess I’m depressed because I had to stop playing basketball because
of my ankle injury. I just don’t know
what to do with my time except sleep.
Counselor: You feel because .
Client: My girlfriend is a real wreck. She is constantly thinking I am flirting or making
out with another girl. She calls me
constantly with accusations. I have not even looked at another girl since
we started going out. I’m so disgusted
that I don’t know if I even want to be in this relationship
Counselor: You feel because .
Practice and give feedback in class. Break into 3 groups
Reviewers should complete a Critique Sheet on every counselor and turn those in.
Critique
Sheet
Reviewer:
Counselor:
Date:
Assessment of Building Block Skills
Skill Circle/add what fits Comments/Suggestions
(may circle several) (include
positive and negative)
Invitational skills
Eye
contact Consistent Not
enough
Too
intense Culturally sensitive
Other:________________
___________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Body Position Relaxed
Alertness Some tension
Defensive Sensitive to
client
Leaned toward
client Guarded
Right physical
distance
Other:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Silence Too chatty/avoid silence
Some silence for
reflection
Too much
silence—uncomfortable
Other
Voice Tone Comfortable Sometimes revealed counselor’s opinion
Good mirroring of client
emotion
Did not mirror client
emotion
Other:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Facial
Expression/ Smiling Welcoming Interested
Gestures/Touch Guarded Matched Client Emotion
Touch
comfortable to client/counselor
Touch not comfortable or
suggestive
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Door
Openers Pertinent & Comfortable Observation
(Comfortable Lacked opening chitchat
invitation
to Chitchat seemed out of
place/uncaring
talk) Moved
too fast into problem
Minimal
Client felt heard Too much
Encouragers Not enough Inappropriate
(Brief
response/ Other:
head nod)
Open
Questions Used primarily
Excellent to get
story & thoughts
Not used enough
Used to sneak
advice
Overuse of open
questions
Other:
List
two open ended questions you heard in the session.
Closed
Questions Used appropriately for
needed information
Too many
Sometimes seemed
judgmental
Overuse of
closed questions
Skill Circle/add what fits Comments/Suggestions
(may circle several) (include
positive and negative)
About right time Seemed long/complicated
Exaggerated Impactful Matched Mood
Right reason in
story Wrong reason in story
List two reflecting statements
you heard the counselor make in the
session.
Paraphrasing Good picking up content Sounded judgmental
Picked up
emotional tone about right
Emotional tone
seemed off
List two paraphrasing statements
you heard counselor make during session.
Assignment: Due
June 19
Read Chapter 6
Additional Exercises (p. 140): Do all (a, b, c) of Exercise 1. No need to write examples. Just list “Paraphrase” and then your paraphrase statement. List “Feelings” and your description of client’s feelings. List “Underlying Meaning” and your description of the underlying meaning. List “Reflection of Meaning” and your statement reflecting meaning.
Homework 2: First Typescript (p. 142). Do all of the exercises. Type up your 15-minute typescript according to the format on p. 143. Your typescript is due June 23rd. Have your 15-minute video ready to show June 24th. Your partner will be assigned. Attempt to demonstrate invitational skills, opening skills, reflecting skills (reflecting & paraphrasing), advanced reflecting skills, and one form of summary statement. It is OK to make a couple of videos to determine which one you want to use.
Lecture of Advanced Reflecting Skills
Video—Segment 6 & 7
Assignment: Due
June 23
Read Chapter 7
Continue to work on your typescript (listed above).
The Importance of the Intake--Doug Miller will be taking care of the class
Turn in "Typescript" to Doug. Keep video until June 24.
Assignment: Due June 24
Homework 1 (p. 172): Use models on pages 158-161 to complete exercise.
a. As closely as you can add the main occupation of each adult. If they have changed jobs., indicate “Changed Jobs” and list main 2 or 3 job areas. Discuss in writing family patterns with selection of vocation. No need to go into Holland’s occupational codes.
b. Because you did mark family relationships as being married, divorced, living together, etc. and whether the relationships were distant, close, or conflicted, note the family patterns and discuss. What if any does that pattern lead you to expect? How has that or might in the future effect you in relationships?
c. Go back to your genogram and with different colored ink, mark AA (Alcohol Abuse), DA (Drug Abuse), RAA (Recovering AA) or RDA (Recovering Drug Abuse). Mark any deaths or hospitalizations due to alcohol or drugs. Discuss in writing family patterns with alcohol or drug abuse.
d. With even different color ink, go back to your genogram and mark D(depression), A (anxiety), B(bi-polar), OP (overly perfectionistic) or MF for any impaired mental health functioning. You may make up other mental health difficulties that run in your family. Just mark them with some form of code to tell me what they are. Discuss in writing that if a therapist looked at your genogram, what kind of mental health difficulties would they be alert for.
June 24, 2003
Critique of Video—Divide into 3 groups and watch 5-6 videos
a day and critique. Turn in Critique
Sheet to instructor.
Critique
Sheet
Reviewer:
Counselor:
Date:
Assessment of Accumulated Skills and
Advanced Skills
Skill Circle/add what fits Comments/Suggestions
(May circle several) (Include
positive and negative)
Invitational skills
Eye contact Consistent Not enough
Too intense
Culturally sensitive
Other:________________
___________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Body Position Relaxed Alertness Some
tension
Defensive Sensitive to
client
Leaned toward
client Guarded
Right physical
distance
Other:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Silence Too
chatty/avoid silence
Some silence for
reflection
Too much
silence—uncomfortable
Other
Voice Tone Comfortable Sometimes revealed counselor’s opinion
Good mirroring of client
emotion
Did not mirror
client emotion
Other:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Facial Expression/ Smiling Welcoming Interested
Gestures/Touch Guarded Matched Client
Emotion
Touch
comfortable to client/counselor
Touch not comfortable or
suggestive
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Door Openers Pertinent &
Comfortable Observation
(Pleasant Lacked opening chitchat
invitation
to Chitchat seemed out of place/uncaring
talk) Moved
too fast into problem
Other:______
Minimal Client felt heard Too lengthy
Encouragers Not enough
Inappropriate
(Brief
response/ Other: _______
Head nod)
Open Questions Used primarily
Excellent to get
story & thoughts
Not used enough
Used to sneak
advice
Other:
Closed Questions Used appropriately for needed information
Too many
Sometimes seemed
judgmental
About right time Seemed long/complicated
Exaggerated Impactful Matched Mood
Right reason in
story Wrong reason in story
List one
reflecting statement you heard the counselor make in the session.
Paraphrasing Good picking up content
Sounded judgmental
Picked up
emotional tone about right
Emotional tone
seemed off
Reflection of Indicates understanding of client’s worldview
Meaning (ROM) Did not seem really get the client’s worldview
ROM seemed
judgmental or accepting
ROM seemed to
deepen the session
Good try but too
long and complicated—a real stretch
List (in
approximate fashion) one ROM you heard the counselor make in the session.
Summary Statement Focusing Summary
Signal Summary
Thematic Summary
Planning Summary
List one Summary
Statement you heard the counselor make in the session.
What do you consider this counselor’s strengths to be?
What recommendations do you have for this counselor?
June 25, 2003
Complete Video
Demonstration—Intake
Assignment: Due
June 26
Re-read pages 161-168 and be prepared to do intake with partner in class.
June 26, 2003
Break up
into groups of 2 and follow the “Intake Form Worksheet” on page 165. Counselor should take notes discreetly as
he/she is doing the intake . It is best
to know the intake form well enough to be able to jump around some. If a question seems irrelevant to a client
it is OK to skip it. Counselor may ask
client to complete the “Demographic Data” before the intake.
Assignment: Due
June 30
Intake Form: Using the intake form worksheet you did in class, write up an Intake
Form similar to that on page 169. Do not include the Treatment Goals Treatment Plan.
Read Chapter 8
June 30,
2003
Challenging Skills
Practice Exercises—Role Plays
Assignment:
Due July 1
Exercise 2. (p. 193) Do all (a-e).
Homework 2 (p. 193)
Journal Starters (p. 194), # 2
Read Chapter 9
Be prepared to use the steps on page 210 and 211 to goal set in class tomorrow.
July 1, 2003
Goal-Setting Skills
Pair up with the person you did the intake form with. Using the steps on page 210-211 determine a goal. The counselor should write that down to turn in using the following format.
Counselor:
Client:
Agreed upon goal:
Evaluation of
goal:
Is
the goal specific?
Is
the goal stated in positive terms?
Is
the goal simple enough for an 8 year old to understand?
How
motivated are is the client to accomplish the goal?
Is
the goal realistic considering your client’s abilities?
Assignment: Due July 2
Complete Goal Setting Sheet using format above.
Stop and Reflect: (p. 208) Do all parts except the last one on discussing with a friend.
Make a 30-minute video doing counseling with a partner. Have that video ready to show in class on July 3rd. Key the video up to show 20 minutes and receive feedback from the entire class. You may make as many videos as practice as you can get your partner to do. In this video you should demonstrate that you are proficient in the following: invitational skills, opening skills, reflecting, and summarizing. Prior to showing it to the class, do your own critique sheet. Personal Critique Sheet is due July 3. Please make a copy of the following form and type in your comments and recommendations. You will use this same sheet again when you do your final critique.
Name_________________Client________________Date______________________
Skill Category: Comments Recommendations
Invitational
Eye contact
Body position
Silence
Voice tone
Gestures
Opening Skills
Door Openers
Minimal Encouragers
Open Questions
Closed Questions
Reflecting
Paraphrasing
Reflecting Feelings
Advanced Reflection of
Meaning
Challenging
Feedback on
Discrepancies.
Confrontation
Goal Setting
How did you feel going into this session?
Discuss your ability to establish an empathetic relationship.
What barriers got in the way of an empathetic relationship?
Did you try to deepen the client into a more meaningful level of awareness and feelings? If so, how did it go?
What did you think you did really well?
What recommendations do you have to yourself?
Read pages 311-324
Dealing with Resistance
Crisis Counseling
July 3
Video Critique
Each class member should turn in a critique on every class member
Critique Sheet
Reviewer:
Counselor:
Client:
Date:
Assessment of Accumulated Skills and Advanced Skills
Skill Circle/add what fits Comments/Suggestions
(May circle several) (Include
positive and negative)
Invitational skills
Eye contact Consistent Not enough
Too intense
Culturally sensitive
Other:________________
___________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Body Position Relaxed Alertness Some
tension
Defensive Sensitive to
client
Leaned toward
client Guarded
Right physical
distance
Other:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Silence Too chatty/avoid silence
Some silence for
reflection
Too much
silence—uncomfortable
Other
Voice Tone Comfortable Sometimes revealed counselor’s opinion
Good mirroring of client
emotion
Did not mirror
client emotion
Other:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Facial Expression/ Smiling Welcoming Interested
Gestures/Touch Guarded Matched Client
Emotion
Touch
comfortable to client/counselor
Touch not comfortable or
suggestive
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Door Openers Pertinent &
Comfortable Observation
(Pleasant Lacked opening chitchat
invitation
to Chitchat seemed out of
place/uncaring
talk) Moved
too fast into problem
Other:______
Minimal Client felt heard Too lengthy
Encouragers Not enough
Inappropriate
(Brief
response/ Other: _______
Head nod)
Open Questions Used primarily
Excellent to get
story & thoughts
Not used enough
Used to sneak
advice
Other:
Closed Questions Used appropriately for needed information
Too many
Sometimes seemed
judgmental
About right time Seemed long/complicated
Exaggerated Impactful Matched Mood
Right reason in
story Wrong reason in story
List one
reflecting statement you heard the counselor make in the session.
Paraphrasing Good picking up content
Sounded judgmental
Picked up
emotional tone about right
Emotional tone
seemed off
Reflection of Indicates understanding of client’s worldview
Meaning (ROM) Did not seem really get the client’s worldview
ROM seemed
judgmental or accepting
ROM seemed to
deepen the session
Good try but too
long and complicated—a real stretch
List (in
approximate fashion) one ROM you heard the counselor make in the session.
Summary Statement Focusing Summary
Signal Summary
Thematic Summary
Planning Summary
List one Summary
Statement you heard the counselor make in the session.
Challenging Skills Heard story before pointing discrepancy
Caring Tactful Accepting
Constructive Destructive Hurtful
Seemed
off-target (counter-transference)
Other:
List
one Challenging statement
What
did you pick up that might have needed to be challenged?
Helped
focus Showed lack of
understanding
Specific Positive Simple
Important
to Client Realistic
` Complicated General Unrealistic
Other:
List
a “goal-setting” statement.
What
do you think the goal should have been?
Discuss this counselor’s ability to establish an empathetic relationship.
What do you consider this counselor’s strengths to be?
What recommendations do you have for this counselor?
Last day I will accept late assignments.
Video Critique. Class members turn in critique sheets to counselor
July 8, 2003
Volunteer Opportunities.
Video Critique Class members turn in critique sheets to counselor.
July 9, 2003
Video Critique. Class members turn in critique sheets to counselor
Assignment: Due July 10
Read all of the critique sheets provided to you by
classmates and instructor. Using the same
format that you turned in on your self-critique, discuss what you learned
from class critique. If you do not have your critique sheets back
by July 9, then you may bring by this assignment on July 11 to 260 Noble Hall. The assignment is due the day after you
show your video in class.
Prepare for exam
July 10, 2003
Final Exam: This
exam will be primarily a skill-based
exam. You will be given client statements and asked to make a particular skill response. You may be given a typescript of a counseling
session and be asked to critique it.
Be prepared for a discussion question on the intake process,
transference and counter-transference, the counseling relationship, crisis
counseling, resistance, or opening or invitational skills.